Topolgy deals with notions of convergence and the translation into other spaces of these properties.
Let $(X, \mathcal{O}_X)$ and $(Y, \mathcal{O}_Y)$ topological spaces. A function is called continuous, if the pre-image of every open set is open. More formally:
$f\colon (X,\mathcal{O}_X) \rightarrow (Y,\mathcal{O}_Y)$ is continous (in all $x \in X$) $\iff$ $\forall O \in \mathcal{O}_Y : f^{-1}(O) \in \mathcal{O}_X$
The cool thing here to notice: There is a map between sets and between structures defined by open sets!
In some exercises, you can see that this defintion of continous coincides with the ones seen in real analysis (as a special case). There are some more subtle defintions using filters or nets to the equivalent formulations, which you can have a look at when the time comes.
A homeomorphism is a function from $X \rightarrow Y$, which is continous and where the inverse function $f^{-1}$ is continous as well. Topological properties are properties which are preserved under homeomorphisms. Continuity forbids you to cut things, but to transform them by stretching.
Notice here that the definition for continuity totally depends on the topologies $\mathcal{O}_X$ and $\mathcal{O}_Y$, and therefore on open sets! For example:
Have a look at $f\colon (X,\mathcal{O}_X) \rightarrow (Y,\mathcal{O}_Y)$. If you use the $\mathcal{O}_X= \tau_{discrete}$, denoting the discrete topology, you can prove as an easy exercise that no matter what the topolgy $\mathcal{O}_Y$ is, the function is continous.
Or: If $\mathcal{O}_Y = \tau_{trivial}$, then the function is continuous by the above defintion as well for all $\mathcal{O}_X$. Making the $Y$-topolgy smaller and the $X$-topology bigger will certainly make things continous. But the trivial topology is quite uninteressing. For instance if you like to have a concept like neighbourhood, this is way too rough. You need more sets. The question topologists ask now is: I want to have a look at two spaces with certain topological properties (like convergence, compactness, connectedness, separability, etc.). Can I still get a homeomorphism between the two?
So, if you like to equip the unit-ball with a topology so that it is homeomorphic to the square, you have to ask yourself: Which system of open sets do I have to take? Can I find a bicontinous function then? Have a look here, how that is done: Prove a square is homeomorphic to a circle
The idea here is that there are topologies induced by metrics. And there are plenty of metrics in $\mathbb{R}^2$ like the supremum metric or the euclidean metric.