You first need to take into account that Bayesian Inference derives itself from decision theory.
Second, in Bayesian inference the point estimator $\hat{\theta}$ is the value that minimizes the Expected Loss Function.
So, for instance, let $\pi(\theta | X_{(n)})$ be the posterior distribution of $\theta$ given the sample $X_{(n)}$ and $\mathcal{L}(\theta, \hat{\theta})$ the Loss function.
So given this two definitions $\hat{\theta}$ will be the value tha minimizes the Expected Loss given by $$\int_{\Theta} \mathcal{L}(\theta, \hat{\theta}) \pi(\theta | X_{(n)})d\theta =\mathbb{E}_{\theta}[L(\theta, \hat{\theta})|X_{(n)}]$$.
Solving this integral for different loss functions yields different point estimators for $\hat{\theta}$, i.e.
- $\mathcal{L}= (\theta - \hat{\theta})^2$ yields the expected value/mean of the posterior distribution $\pi$, i.e. $E_{\theta}[\theta|X_{(n)}]$ which is the BMSE in the answer above.
- $\mathcal{L}= |\theta - \hat{\theta}|$ yields the median of the posterior distribution $\pi$.
- $\mathcal{L}= \left\{ \begin{array}{rcl}
1 & \mbox{for}
& |\theta - \hat{\theta}|<\varepsilon \\ 0 & \mbox{for} & |\theta - \hat{\theta}|>\varepsilon
\end{array}\right.$ yields the mode of the posterior posterior $\pi$.
However you can construct any loss function that correctly represents preference in your particular inference decision problem.
I really recommend to you looking at this introductory course in bayesian statistics by Manuel Mendoza to get some real graps on bayesian theory and the axioms underlying Bayesian Inference.