If you just want to have an actual example, here it is: Set $n=3$, $x_1=x_2=x_3=1 + 2^{-52}.$ Then you have (the first values are the hexadecimal binary64 values)
x1 = x2 = x3 = 3FF0000000000001 = 1.00000000000000E+0000
x1^2 = x2^2 = x3^2 = 3FF0000000000002 = 1.00000000000000E+0000
a = 3*(x1^2 + x2^2 + x3^2) = 4022000000000002 = 9.00000000000000E+0000
b = (x1 + x2 + x3)^2 = 4022000000000003 = 9.00000000000001E+0000
a - b = BCE0000000000000 = -1.77635683940025E-0015
Admittedly the $x_i$ are somewhat artificial. Another example with equal $x_i$ is $n=6, x_i=0.3$
xi = 3FD3333333333333 = 3.00000000000000E-0001
xi^2 = 3FB70A3D70A3D70A = 9.00000000000000E-0002
a = 6*sum(xi^2) = 4009EB851EB851EA = 3.24000000000000E+0000
b = sum(xi)^2 = 4009EB851EB851EC = 3.24000000000000E+0000
a - b = BCD0000000000000 = -8.88178419700125E-0016
And here the expanded second example with non-zero variance (the now $x_1$ is the smallest FP number greater than 0.3)
x1 = 3FD3333333333334 = 3.0000000000000004E-0001
x2 = 3FD3333333333333 = 2.9999999999999999E-0001
x3 = 3FD3333333333333 = 2.9999999999999999E-0001
x4 = 3FD3333333333333 = 2.9999999999999999E-0001
x5 = 3FD3333333333333 = 2.9999999999999999E-0001
x6 = 3FD3333333333333 = 2.9999999999999999E-0001
mean = 3FD3333333333333 = 2.9999999999999999E-0001
sdev = 3C7C9F25C5BFEDD9 = 2.4825341532472729E-0017
a = 4009EB851EB851EA = 3.2399999999999993E+0000
b = 4009EB851EB851EE = 3.2400000000000011E+0000
a-b = BCE0000000000000 = -1.7763568394002505e-0015
Interestingly here the negative difference occurs already for $n=2$
x1 = 3FD3333333333334 = 3.0000000000000004E-0001
x2 = 3FD3333333333333 = 2.9999999999999999E-0001
mean = 3FD3333333333334 = 3.0000000000000004E-0001
sdev = 3C90000000000000 = 5.5511151231257827E-0017
a = 3FD70A3D70A3D70B = 3.6000000000000004E-0001
b = 3FD70A3D70A3D70C = 3.6000000000000010E-0001
a-b = BC90000000000000 = -5.5511151231257827E-0017