I went through the same problem as yours. I used Mathematica to ease the computations.
$\chi ^2=\sum _{i=1}^4 \frac{(O_i-E_i)^2}{E_i}=\frac{n(a d-b c)^2}{(a+c)(b+d)(a+b)(c+d)}$
$O_i$ are the observed values, $O_1=a, O_2=b,O_3=c$ and $O_4=d$
$E_i$ are the expected values, $E_1=\frac{(a+b)(a+c)}{n}, E_2=\frac{(a+b)(b+d)}{n},E_3=\frac{(a+c)(c+d)}{n}$ and $E_4=\frac{(b+d)(c+d)}{n}$
Then by expanding the summation we have:
$\sum _{i=1}^4 \frac{(O_i-E_i)^2}{E_i}=\frac{(O_1-E_1)^2}{E_1}+\frac{(O_2-E_2)^2}{E_2}+\frac{(O_3-E_3)^2}{E_3}+\frac{(O_4-E_4)^2}{E_4}$
Substituting in the summation we have:
$\frac{n\left(a-\frac{(a + b)(a+c)}{n}\right)^2}{(a + b)(a+c)}+\frac{n\left(b-\frac{(a + b)(b+d)}{n}\right)^2}{(a + b)(b+d)}+\frac{n\left(c-\frac{(a
+ c)(c+d)}{n}\right)^2}{(a + c)(c+d)}+\frac{n\left(d-\frac{(b + d)(c+d)}{n}\right)^2}{(b + d)(c+d)}$
$\text{Simplify}\left[\frac{n\left(a-\frac{(a + b)(a+c)}{n}\right)^2}{(a + b)(a+c)}+\frac{n\left(b-\frac{(a + b)(b+d)}{n}\right)^2}{(a
+ b)(b+d)}+\frac{n\left(c-\frac{(a + c)(c+d)}{n}\right)^2}{(a + c)(c+d)}+\frac{n\left(d-\frac{(b + d)(c+d)}{n}\right)^2}{(b + d)(c+d)}\right]$
$\frac{((b+d) (c+d) ((a+b) (a+c)-a n)^2+(a+c) (c+d) ((a+b) (b+d)-b n)^2+(a+b) (b+d) ((a+c) (c+d)-c n)^2+(a+b) (a+c) ((b+d) (c+d)-d
n)^2}{((a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n)}$
Then expanding the numerator and distributing the denominator all over we have:
$\text{Expand}[\frac{((b+d) (c+d) ((a+b) (a+c)-a n)^2+(a+c) (c+d) ((a+b) (b+d)-b n)^2+(a+b) (b+d) ((a+c) (c+d)-c n)^2+(a+b) (a+c) ((b+d) (c+d)-d
n)^2}{((a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n)}]$
$
-\frac{2 a^3 b c}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4 a^2 b^2 c}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a b^3 c}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4
a^2 b c^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{6 a b^2 c^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 b^3 c^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a b c^3}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 b^2 c^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a^3 b d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4 a^2 b^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2
a b^3 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a^3 c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{10 a^2 b c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{10 a b^2 c d}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 b^3 c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4 a^2 c^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{10 a b c^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{6
b^2 c^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a c^3 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 b c^3 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a^3 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c)
(b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{6 a^2 b d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4 a b^2 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{6 a^2 c d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{10
a b c d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4 b^2 c d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4 a c^2 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{4 b c^2 d^2}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a^2 d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a b d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2 a c d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}-\frac{2
b c d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a^4 b c}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^3 b^2 c}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^2 b^3 c}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a b^4 c}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^3 b c^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{7 a^2 b^2 c^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d)
(c+d) n}+\frac{5 a b^3 c^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{b^4 c^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^2 b c^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{5
a b^2 c^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{2 b^3 c^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a b c^4}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{b^2 c^4}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a^4 b d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^3 b^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^2 b^3 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d)
(c+d) n}+\frac{a b^4 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a^4 c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{8 a^3 b c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{14
a^2 b^2 c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{8 a b^3 c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{b^4 c d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^3 c^2 d}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{14 a^2 b c^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{16 a b^2 c^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{5 b^3 c^2 d}{(a+b) (a+c)
(b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a^2 c^3 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{8 a b c^3 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{5 b^2 c^3 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)
n}+\frac{a c^4 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{b c^4 d}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a^4 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{5 a^3 b d^2}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{7 a^2 b^2 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a b^3 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{5 a^3 c d^2}{(a+b) (a+c)
(b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{16 a^2 b c d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{14 a b^2 c d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 b^3 c d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d)
(c+d) n}+\frac{7 a^2 c^2 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{14 a b c^2 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{7 b^2 c^2 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d)
(c+d) n}+\frac{3 a c^3 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 b c^3 d^2}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{2 a^3 d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{5
a^2 b d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a b^2 d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{5 a^2 c d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{8 a b c d^3}{(a+b)
(a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 b^2 c d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 a c^2 d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{3 b c^2 d^3}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d)
(c+d) n}+\frac{a^2 d^4}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a b d^4}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a c d^4}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{b c
d^4}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d) n}+\frac{a^2 b c n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a b^2 c n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a b c^2 n}{(a+b) (a+c)
(b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{2 b^2 c^2 n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a^2 b d n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a b^2 d n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a^2
c d n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{b^2 c d n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a c^2 d n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{b c^2 d n}{(a+b) (a+c)
(b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{2 a^2 d^2 n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a b d^2 n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{a c d^2 n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}+\frac{b
c d^2 n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}
$
Then we fully simplify that messy horrible thing
FullSimplify[Messy horrible thing from above]
$
-2 (a+b+c+d)+\frac{(a+b+c+d)^2}{n}+\frac{\left(b c (d (c+d)+b (2 c+d))+a^2 (b (c+d)+d (c+2 d))+a \left(b^2 (c+d)+c d (c+d)+b \left(c^2+d^2\right)\right)\right)
n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}
$
Up to this point we observe we have the term $(a + b + c + d)$ which we know is equivalent to $n$. We substitute that by $n$ in the following
equation and simplify
$
\text{Simplify}[-2 (n)+\frac{(n)^2}{n}+\frac{\left(b c (d (c+d)+b (2 c+d))+a^2 (b (c+d)+d (c+2 d))+a \left(b^2 (c+d)+c d (c+d)+b
\left(c^2+d^2\right)\right)\right) n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}]
$
$
\frac{(b c-a d)^2 n}{(a+b) (a+c) (b+d) (c+d)}
$
There you go, hope this helps.