Recall that a matrix $A\in \mathbb{C}^{n\times n}$ is normal if $AA^{*}=A^{*}A$ where $A^*:=\bar{A}^T.$ Let $A\in \mathbb{R}^{n\times n}.$
- Show that not all unitary matrices are orthogonal.
- Use 1. to conclude that not every normal matrix in $\mathbb{R}^{n\times n}$ is orthogonally similar to a diagonal matrix.
My idea for 1.:
We want to show that $AA^T\neq A^TA \, \forall A=UBU^*$ where $U$ is a unitary matrix and $B$ is a diagonal matrix. $U^*=\bar{U}^T.$ Then we have \begin{align} AA^T\\ &=UBU^*(UBU^*)^T\\ &=UBU^*\bar{U}BU^T \end{align} So, intuitively since $U^*\bar{U}\neq \bar{U}U^*$, we have that $AA^T\neq A^TA .$ How do I come up with a clever counterexample?