I apologize in advance if the question is a bit off-topic and not strictly mathematical.
To be clear, I'm talking about classical probability which is defined like this: Given a finite sample space $S$, and a subset of $S$ which we call event $E$, the probability $P(E)$ of event $E$ is $$P(E)=\dfrac{N(E)}{N(S)}$$
Where $N$ denotes the number of the elements of a set.
I wanna understand what notion we try to capture when we define probability. Bernoulli, Laplace and others certainly had a certain concept in mind that they wanted to describe and hence they formalized it into this definition.
To explain my point, consider the following example: We have a set of data, say, a bunch of real numbers and we want to represent them using a single real number. So the notion we wanna capture here is finding a real number that is the best representative to a group of real numbers. It turns out the mean of those numbers is the best representative to them in the sense that it minimizes the sum of the square of differences(distances) between the mean and every real number in that set of data.
So what notion we wanna capture by defining probability? I was told that if the probability of an event $E$ in an experiment is say, $0.3$ then if the experiment is performed $n$ number of times, $0.3n$ of times event $E$ will happen. So this is the notion $P(E)$ supposed to capture.
This definition, as far as capturing this concept makes perfect sense to me in the following:
-If an event has a $P(E)=0$ then it will never happen.
-If an event has a $P(E)=1$ then it will always happen, or if we perform the experiment $n$ times, $E$ will occur $n$ times.
However for $P(E)$ that has a value between 0 and 1, I don't know how it works. For example if we tossed a coin 10 times, it's not guaranteed at all that half the tosses will give you head, even worse, all the tosses can sometimes give you tails. So what's going on here?
When I asked for the justification that $P(E)$ really captures this notion, I read this is justified by the law of large numbers: You perform an experiment certain number of times, say for example tossing a fair coin. When we calculate the probability of a toss being head, we assign the number $0.5$ to that event. This means(According to my understanding of the law of large numbers) that as the number of tossing the coin gets arbitrarily large(number of trials approaching infinity), Heads will make up $0.5$ of the total number of coins tossed, or a number that's very close to $0.5$ and as the number of trials increase, it will approach $0.5$.
However there's something circular about this: When I ask what does "fair" coin mean? It's a coin that, as we toss it arbitrarily large number of times, the number of its heads will approach $0.5$.
So can someone clear it up for me, and justify why $P(E)$ captures what it captures?