Defining the conditional statement "$\phi \implies \psi$" so as to capture what is meant by implication requires that we ignore the issue of causation.
From Keith Devlin's Introduction to Mathematical Thinking:
$\quad$The truth or falsity of a conditional will be defined entirely in terms of the truth or falsity of the antecedent and the consequent. That is to say, whether or not the conditional expression $\phi \implies \psi$ is true will depend entirely upon the truth or falsity of $\phi$ and $\psi$, taking no account of whether or not there is any meaningful connection between $\phi$ and $\psi$.
$\quad$The reason this approach turns out to be a useful one, is that in all cases where there is a meaningful and genuine implication $\phi$ implies $\psi$, the conditional $\phi \implies \psi$ does accord with that implication.
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$$ \begin{array}{ccc} \phi & \psi & \phi \implies \psi \\ \hline T & T & T \\ T & F & F \\ F & T & ? \\ F & F & ? \\ \end{array} $$ ...
$\quad$Once we get used to ignoring all questions of causality, the truth-values of the conditional seem straightforward enough when the antecedent is true...[b]ut what about when the antecedent is false?
Intuitively, we can see that $\phi$ implies $\psi$ means that it does not happen that $\phi$ is true and $\psi$ is false, as this captures the hypothetical aspect of implication, since we would like to consider an implication as true when the consequent does follow from the antecedent, even if the antecedent turns out to be false. Consider the following conditionals in each of which the antecedent is false:
$\quad$If it is true that polygamy is legal in New York, then marriage laws in New York are not identical$\quad$with those in Nevada. (Here the consequent is true).
$\quad$If it is true that polygamy is legal in New York, then a man living in New York can legally have $\quad$three wives. (Here the consequent is false).
Few would deny the truth of the preceding conditionals. From Introduction to Logic by P. Suppes:
Although we have already admitted that the notion of connection or dependence being appealed to here is too vague to be a formal concept of logic, in choosing examples which will force upon us, within our truth-functional framework, a truth value for implications with false antecedents it is reasonable to pick an example...for which our intuitive feeling of dependence is strong rather than an example...for which it is weak.
And the reason why this is a reasonable thing to do is because there is a hypothetical aspect of implication that we would like to capture in our defining the conditional. Thus, we can agree that the truth table for $\phi \implies \psi$ and $\lnot (\phi \land \lnot \psi )$ should have the same truth-value for each particular combination of truth-values for $\phi$ and $\psi$. $$ \begin{array}{cccc} \phi & \psi & \lnot (\phi \land \lnot \psi) & \phi \implies \psi \\ \hline T & T & T & T \\ T & F & F & F \\ F & T & T & T \\ F & F & T & T \\ \end{array} $$
First question: Is this convincing and appropriate to use as an explanation for the definition of the conditional? Also please provide your own approach.
Again from P. Suppes:
The truth functional demand...has no undesirable effects, since conditional sentences whose antecedents and consequents are unrelated and whose antecedents are false play no serious role in systematic arguments.
Even though this is the case, I feel that it is important for 1) the conditional to be defined in all cases and 2) to provide an explanation for this definition. However, it is often said that the assignment of truth values for the case when $\phi$ is false is arbitrary, but that this produces a useful logic. This seems to imply that the conditional could have a different truth table and that we need not provide an explanation that appeals to our intuition of how implies should work. Second question: Is this true?
Response to Derek Elkins:
At this point in my self education (I am looking at Modern Introductory Analysis by Dolciani, a precalculus text) I am looking for a solid explanation about implication and how we come to define the conditional. Most of your answer contains material that is currently out of my depth, and I am seeking an answer that will put to rest my doubts about my understanding of implication in propositional logic. In fact, I'm only even aware of first-order logic and propositional logic not as theories, but more as a way to make communicating about mathematics precise. Given your extensive knowledge and my lack thereof, and bearing in mind that I am self-studying mathematics at the precalculus level, can you provide me with an explanation that you found satisfying when you were at this level? Also, can you please share with me online resources, or books, that helped you in your education? Thank you.