The time-dependent Schrodinger Equation is given by
$$i \bar h\frac{\partial \psi(\vec r, t)}{\partial t}=H\{\psi(\vec r, t)\}$$
where the Hamiltonial operator is
$$H\{\cdot \}=-\frac{\bar h^2}{2m}\nabla^2\{\cdot\}+V(\vec r,t)\{\cdot\}$$
Therefore, we can write
$$\begin{align}
m\frac d{dt}\int_V \psi^*(\vec r, t)\vec r \psi(\vec r, t)\,dV&=\frac{im}{\bar h}\int_V \vec r\left(H\{\psi^*(\vec r, t)\} \psi(\vec r, t)-H\{\psi(\vec r, t)\} \psi^*(\vec r, t)\right)\,dV\\\\
&=-\frac{i\bar h}{2}\int_V \vec r\left(\psi(\vec r, t)\nabla^2\psi^*(\vec r, t)-\psi^*(\vec r, t)\nabla^2\psi(\vec r, t)\right)\,dV\\\\
&=-\frac{i\bar h}{2}\int_V \vec r\left(\nabla \cdot \left(\psi(\vec r, t)\nabla\psi^*(\vec r, t)-\psi^*(\vec r, t)\nabla\psi(\vec r, t)\right)\right)\,dV\\\\
&=-\frac{i\bar h}{2}\oint_S \vec r\left(\psi(\vec r, t)\frac{\partial \psi^*(\vec r, t)}{\partial n}-\psi^*(\vec r, t)\frac{\partial \psi(\vec r, t)}{\partial n}\right)\,dS\\\\
&+\bbox[5px,border:2px solid #C0A000]{\frac{i\bar h}{2}\int_V\left(\psi(\vec r, t)\nabla\psi^*(\vec r, t)-\psi^*(\vec r, t)\nabla\psi(\vec r, t)\right)\,dV}\,\,\dots \text{OP Starting Point}\\\\
&=-\frac{i\bar h}{2}\oint_S \left(\vec r \psi(\vec r, t)\frac{\partial \psi^*(\vec r, t)}{\partial n}-\vec r \psi^*(\vec r, t)\frac{\partial \psi(\vec r, t)}{\partial n} -\psi^*(\vec r, t)\psi(\vec r, t)\right)\,dS\\\\
&-\frac{i\bar h}{2}\int_V 2 \psi^*(\vec r, t)\nabla \psi(\vec r, t)\,dV
\end{align}$$
If we take $V$ to be all of space, then the surface integral vanishes and we are left with
$$\begin{align}
m\frac d{dt}\int_V \psi^*(\vec r, t)\vec r \psi(\vec r, t)\,dV&=\int_V \psi^*(\vec r, t)\left(-i\bar h \nabla \psi(\vec r, t)\right)\,dV\\\\
&=\langle \vec p \rangle
\end{align}$$
where
$$\langle \vec p \rangle=\int_V \psi^*(\vec r, t)\left(-i\bar h \nabla \psi(\vec r, t)\right)\,dV$$
since the momentum operator in the spatial representation is given by
$$\vec P_{op}\{ \psi(\vec r, t)\}=-i\bar h\nabla \psi(\vec r, t)$$