A positive definite matrix is a symmetric matrix A for which all eigenvalues are positive. - Gilbert Strang
I have heard of positive definite quadratic forms, but never heard of definiteness for a matrix.
- Because definiteness is higher dimensional analogy for whether if something is convex (opening up) or concave (opening down). It does not make sense to me to say a matrix is opening up, or matrix is opening down.
Therefore it does not make sense to say that a matrix has definiteness.
In addition, when we say $M \in \mathbb{R}^{n \times n}$ positive definite, what is the first thing we do? We plug $M$ into a function(al) $x^T (\cdot) x$ and check whether the function is positive for all $x \in \mathbb{R}^n$. Clearly, that means we are defining this definiteness with respect to $x^T (\cdot) x$ and NOT $M$ itself.
Furthermore, when matrix have complex eigenvalues, then we ditch the notion of definiteness property all together. Clearly, definiteness is a flimsy property for matrices if we can just throw it away when it becomes inconvenient.
I will grant you that if we were to define positive definite matrices, we should only define with respect to symmetric matrices. This is the definition on Wikipedia, the definition used by numerous linear algebra books and many applied math books.
But then when confronted with a matrix of the form
$$\begin{bmatrix} 1 & -1 \\ 0 & 1 \end{bmatrix}$$
I still firmly believe that this matrix is not positive definite because it is not symmetric. Because to me positive definiteness implies symmetry.
To what degree is it widely agreed upon in the math community that a positive definite matrix is defined strictly with respect to symmetric matrices and why only with respect to symmetric matrices?