# Understand it or burn [closed]

I have a big problem when I study math,namely when I am stuck on some problem I can't go on and I won't keep studying other material till I haven't solved the problem I've been stuck on.

I am referring to the kind of problem of which I know the "tools" with which it can be solved but I can't see how to apply them or understand how they've been applied if the solution is provided.

This is really a devastating feeling ,it is like if I can't understand that specific problem I won't be able to understand any other thing if I leave it and keep on with the material.

It is literally as I've stated methaphorically in the title:understand it or burn.

This attitude is really bad in general for me because I know I am wasting time that could be used efficiently on other topics and because I haven't really much time to waste.

That's because I've decided to take a gap year after high school to learn some mathematics on my own since I knew I wouldn't have been ready for college mathematics given that for the last years I've been studying arts(also I can't afford a tutor).

So really I have no one which can help me and I have to find a way on my own to solve all my problems and this is the only site which really can help me in the way .

So I am asking not how much I should struggle with a problem,but rather what is the best way to struggle with a problem (I hope you get what I mean).

## closed as primarily opinion-based by rschwieb, user223391, Michael Albanese, Did, user147263 Nov 24 '15 at 23:35

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• Read "How to solve it" by Pòlya (even if you only remember his suggestion to ask yourself "can I solve an easier problem?" you still have something valuable). Try not to be too stubborn with problems you are stuck on: often you are taking the wrong approach, and no amount of thinking about that wrong approach will make it right. Start the problem from scratch with the rule that you must not attack it the same way as before. – Matthew Towers Nov 24 '15 at 12:37
• Agree with comment above. Also it is often really important to leave a problem alone for a while if you can't solve it. Many times I have left a problem and come back to it another day, then when looking at it with a fresh mind you often see it completely differently and can solve it. – EHH Nov 24 '15 at 12:46
• You are reiterating my life-story! But there I've Physics along with maths:/ – user142971 Nov 24 '15 at 16:08
• What sort of mathematics are we talking about? Like, are you thinking more in things like evaluating expressions (like integrals) or proving things? – Milo Brandt Nov 24 '15 at 21:43
• @MiloBrandt It's random,it depends on what kind of problems I choose to do every day. – Nameless Nov 25 '15 at 14:47

Some things to consider:

• To a various degree this happens to all of us.
• It is an essential skill, to be able to leave a problem behind, even if only for a few days. It is fine to skip a problem, esp. if you have solved almost all the others from the section. If it is really bugging you, get help from math.SE. Time is precious—get things done, and get done with things.
• Perhaps you are one of those people who could benefit a lot from reading "How to solve it" by Pòlya (already mentioned in comments by @mt_). Some say it's a collection of obvious and useless (and actually I don't disagree that much), but there is a difference between just following intuition and consciously being aware of some methods and heuristics. Unless you have years of experience, it does help (I do have years of experience, and I still view it from time to time, just to remind myself of some good habits).
• If I were to suggest one thing, then I would urge you to get somebody a bit more experienced (or even better, a few such persons) to show you how they solve problems, but including the internal monologue, that is, how they think (therefore a few people would work better, because you might find somebody that thinks similarly to you). To witness how they create possible approaches (in what way), dismiss some (how, which), from the rest pick the most promising one (why), try, fail, pick another one, etc. This is a lot of work for that person, and actually some kind of tutor would be best (I am aware that you can't afford one). You can start asking for such a script here, although I doubt many would be willing to write such lengthy notes. Maybe ask for a help via chat, interactive discussion is much better. There are also bounties, but I don't know how effective they would be.

Good luck! $\ddot\smile$

It happens with me but only when am practicing at home . During exams , the adrenaline in me kicks off and I do whatever I know I can . Then with the remaining time I approach the problems I left and fortunately I have solved all in most of my exams . But during practice , there isnt much focus . I feel sleepy if I dont get something and cant proceed further . And let me tell you in most of the cases , its the wrong approach . You can waste hours with the wrong approach . So these days , I mark the problem that I cant do and proceed to the next and repeat the process . After finishing whatever I could do , I retry some that I think will be solved with a different approach . Finally I use Google , stackexchange , quora for ' Expert ' advice .

So what you need to do is . Dont think that you are worthless if you couldnt solve a problem . Think about how many problems you did solve without any help . When you are stuck in a problem . Take at most 3 approaches for the time and that too within 5 minutes and then skip if you cant . Retry after you finish everything you could . If still no luck , Theres " Stack exchange " , " Quora " , " Google " , " Yahoo Answers " . Good Luck

I'd like to offer a suggestion from personal experience with math troubles.