You want to show that if
$$t_n = 4\sum_{k=0}^n k \binom n k \tag{P1}$$
Then
$$t_n = t_{n-1} + 2t_{n-2} +3\cdot 2^n \tag{P2}$$
You want to show $\text{P1} \implies \text{P2}$, so you don't need initial conditions. If you were trying to show $\text{P2} \implies \text{P1}$, then you would need initial conditions.
So if $\text{P1}$ holds, then the following is true:
$$t_{n} = 4\sum_{k=0}^{n} k \binom{n}k$$
$$t_{n-1} = 4\sum_{k=0}^{n-1} k \binom{n-1}k$$
$$t_{n-2} = 4\sum_{k=0}^{n-2} k \binom{n-2}k$$
So, then the question is, does the following hold? :
$$4\sum_{k=0}^{n} k \binom{n}k = 4\sum_{k=0}^{n-1} k \binom{n-1}k + 2 \cdot 4\sum_{k=0}^{n-2} k \binom{n-2}k +3\cdot 2^n \tag{P3}$$
If you know that
$$\sum_{k=0}^n k {n \choose k} = n~2^{n-1}$$
then it is easier to work out.
An alternative approach is to show that $\text{P2}$ is equivalent to $\text{P4}$ by the following:
$$t_n = t_{n-1} + 2t_{n-2} + 3\cdot 2^n$$
$$t_{n + 1} = t_{n} + 2t_{n - 1} + 6\cdot 2^n$$
Cancel out the $2^n$ between the equations, so
$$t_{n+1} = 3~t_{n} - 4~t_{n-2} \tag{P4} $$
So you can use this easier form to work out the problem.