I am sure I am making some simple definitional mistake, but I seem to have a 'proof' that all normal operators are self adjoint which I am pretty sure is not true but anyway.
Anyway it goes: Suppose $A\in L(V)$ where $V$ is some finite dimensional vector space. Then, by the complex spectral theorem, we can write $A$ as $A=UDU^{*}$ with $U$ unitary and $D$ diagonal.
Then we have $A^{*}=(UDU^{*})^{*}=(U^{*})^{*}D^{*}U^{*}=UDU^{*}=A $ thereby showing that $A$ is self adjoint.
Any clarification would be appreciated. Thanks