I need to find a representation of $ [M \mathbin\sharp N] \in H_n(M \mathbin\sharp N) $ in terms of the fundamental classes $[M]$ and $[N]$. My idea is that $$ [M \mathbin\sharp N] = [M]+[N]$$
which is based on this MO question, whose answer is a little bit unclear to me because I never made use of triangulation for example.
To prevent some questions, The proof I gave for the fact that $M \mathbin\sharp N$ is orientable iff $M,N$ are, made use of the fact that removing an embedded euclidean nhbd doesn't change orientation behaviour. In fact I think that my question can be rephrased as a request for an homological proof of the orientation behaviour of the connected sum (even though there are lots of different ways to show this).
What I tried is to use the l.e.s of pair $(M \mathbin\sharp N , S^{n-1})$ together with M-V sequence of $M \vee N$ in order to "obtain" the plus, because by M-V we have an iso $$ H_n(M \vee N) \xleftarrow{incl_1 - incl_2} H_n(M) \oplus H_n(N) $$
and by l.e.s. pair we have a s.e.s. (some details can be found here)
$$\require{AMScd} \begin{CD} 0 @>>> H_n(M \mathbin\sharp N) @>>> H_n(M \mathbin\sharp N, S^{n-1}) @>>> H_{n-1}(S^{n-1}) @>>> 0 \\ @. @. @V{\cong}VV \\ @. @. \tilde{H}_n(M \mathbin\sharp N / S^{n-1}) \\ @. @. @V{\cong}VV \\ @. @. \tilde{H}_{n-1}(M \vee N) \end{CD}$$
But I'm unsure how to glue everything together, because the two inclusion with one minus sign would give to me exactly what i want, because I flip one orientation of one of the two manifolds. but these all are intuitive reasonings and I don't know how to formalise them properly.
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following the comments below, it seems that a reasonable way to prove this is to show that $[M]+[N]$ has the characteristic property of the fundamental class. My problem now, (as I double-checked my computations) s that i dont0 have a valid proof for showing that $[M]$ and $[N]$ are elements of $H_n(M\sharp N)$, because trivially $M \not\subset M \sharp N$ obviously, so we need to find something that still represent $[M]$ i the homology group.
An idea was to use Poincaré Duality (see comments) to have a map $H_n(M) \to H_n(M \sharp N)$ but now the problem is that I don't know how to work with such image, because I don't have much control on how does the composition behave. At least, that's my problem right now