For me its very counter intuitive (that convergence in Probability and Distribution are not the same), because, conceptually, if two random variables have the same distribution, then they should be considered the same random variable. I know this is wrong. I am not sure why but its wrong (hence the question). Maybe, does it mean they are the same (isomorphic) w.r.t. to their pdf/cdf/pmf? Anyway, I want to understand why I am wrong and fix my mathematical intuition.
The reason I am complaining is because I am completely aware of a counter example. In fact I will provide it in the appendix of this question, however, even after seeing the counter example, I am not sure I could have come up with it. In fact even after seeing a counter example, it still feels wrong. I was wondering if someone could provide a way of how one would come up with such a counter example (or maybe a counter example that is much more obvious), or maybe explain to me why it should be obvious that one can come up with such a counter example.
Appendix:
Recall the definitions of convergence in distribution and convergence in probability:
Convergence in distribution (D): $$ \lim_{n \rightarrow \infty} | F_{X_n}(x) - F(x)| = 0, \forall x \in X$$
Convergence in probability (P) for sufficiently large $N$ and $\forall \epsilon > 0$:
$$ \lim_{n \rightarrow \infty} Pr[ | X_n - X | \geq \epsilon]= 0$$
i.e. if one goes sufficiently far the sequence of random variables, then, $X_n$ will converge to $X$ (in probability).
I will show the counter example for:
$$D \not\implies P$$
Consider a Bernoulli random variable $X$ with probability of success $\frac{1}{2}$. Now define $X_n$ to be equal to $X$, i.e.
$$X_n = X$$
Therefore, obviously since they are the same r.v. they have the same distribution. Now define:
$$Y = 1 - X$$
Obviously, $Y$ has the same distribution as $X$ and hence, also as $X_n$. So $X_N$ converges in distribution to $Y$.
But, do they converge in probability?
If they do then:
$$ \lim_{n \rightarrow \infty} Pr[ | X_n - Y | \geq \epsilon]= 0$$
i.e. we want their difference to be larger than $\epsilon$ very rarely (in fact we want that event to have zero probability zero as n goes to infinity).
Let's figure out the distance between these two random variables $X_n$ and $Y$:
$$| X_n - Y | = |X_N - (1 - X)| = |X - 1 + X| = |2X - 1| = 1$$
Therefore, their distance is always 1, no matter what. We want their distance to be very far for any $\epsilon$, but notice that for the choice of $\epsilon = \frac{1}{2}$, that the distance between $| X_n - Y | = 1$ is indeed greater than the tolerable threshold (i.e. $1 = | X_n - Y | > \epsilon = \frac{1}{2} $ with probability 1). So for sure their distance is more than $\epsilon$. It doesn't matter what value of $n$ we choose (i.e. it doesn't matter how far we go down the sequence), they are for sure too far apart. More precisely:
$$ \lim_{n \rightarrow \infty}Pr[ | X_n - Y | \geq \epsilon ] = Pr[ 1 \geq \frac{1}{2} ] = 1 $$
which is the opposite of what we need for convergence in probability. End of counter example.