Let S be a finite signature and $\mathfrak{A}, \mathfrak{B}$ S-structures. Fraissé's Theorem states: $$\mathfrak{A} \equiv \mathfrak{B} \Leftrightarrow\mathfrak{A} \cong_f \mathfrak{B}$$ Where $\equiv$ means elementarily equivalent and $\mathfrak{A} \cong_f \mathfrak{B}$ means $\mathfrak{A},\mathfrak{B}$ finitely isomorphic, i.e. there is a sequence $(I_n)_{n\in\mathbb{N}}$ where
a) Every $I_n$ is a nonempty set of partial isomorphisms from $\mathfrak{A}$ to $\mathfrak{B}$
b) If $\sigma \in I_{n+1}, a \in A, b \in B$ there are extensions $\tau, \tau'$ of $\sigma$ in $I_n$ with $a \in dom(\tau), b\in im(\tau')$
I'm looking for a counterexample for infinite S, that is two S-structures $\mathfrak{A}, \mathfrak{B}$ with $\mathfrak{A} \equiv \mathfrak{B}$ but not $\mathfrak{A} \cong_f \mathfrak{B}$.
I fear there might be a trivial example which I'm not seeing, can someone hint me in the right direction?
In general what is a good strategy for proving two structures are not finitely isomorphic?