I was re-reading this old book of mine; and I noticed that in defining the rules of differential forms, it "makes sense" that we have the rule $dx \wedge dx=0$ because if $dx$ is infinitesimal, then to first order approximations we can ignore powers of $dx$. Similarly, the definition for the exterior derivative $d$, of a differential form $\omega=Adx+Bdy+Cdz$, $d\omega=\frac{dA}{dx}dx + \frac{dB}{dy}dy + \frac{dC}{dz}dz $ "makes sense" because it feels like we are just multiplying the top and bottom by the differentials $dx,dy,$ and $dz$.
But it is practically a miracle that by introducing the simple anti-symmetrical commutation relations for differential forms, and applying very elementary operations, we can arrive at all the results of vector calculus such as gradient and cross product, among a large amount of other well known results.
In this particular book, the authors motivate the anti-symmetry condition by properties of determinants and Jacobian's for change of variables in integration. But I was wondering if there are other ways to think about why differential forms should commute anti-symmetrically which might provide some more intuition on just why this "miracle" works.
Thanks!