$A \underset{\mathbb{C}}{\sim} B \overset{\text{def}}{\iff} A=C^{-1}BC, \space C\in M_{n}(\mathbb{C})$ and similarly for $\underset{\mathbb{R}}{\sim}$.
I want to prove that $ A \underset{\mathbb{C}}{\sim} B$ for $A,B \in M_{n}(\mathbb{R})$ therefore $A \underset{\mathbb{R}}{\sim} B$.
My idea is that elementary divisors of $A,B$ over $\mathbb{C}$ are the same, and if $(x-z)^k$ is elementary divisor than $(x-\overline{z})^k$ is also elementary divisor $\implies$ $A,B$ have same elementary divisors over $\mathbb{R}$. But i think it's not clear.