One may recursively prove the formula, for any $\gamma\in\mathrm{SL}_2(\mathbb R)$,
$$\frac{d^k}{dz^k}(f|_{\gamma,1-k})=\big(\frac{d^k}{dz^k}f\big)|_{\gamma,k+1}$$
where if $\gamma=\begin{pmatrix}a&b\\c&d\end{pmatrix}$, then
$$f_{\gamma,k}(z):=(cz+d)^{-k}f(\gamma z).$$
The formula shows $\frac{d^k}{dz^k}$ of a modular function of weight $1-k$ is a modular function of weight $k+1$. In particular, since $j$ is nearly holomorphic of weight $2$ (i.e., is holomorphic everywhere except for $\infty$), $j'(z):=\frac1{2\pi i}\frac d{dz}j(z)=q\frac d{dq}j(z)$ is nearly holomorphic of weight $2$.
Moreover, $j(z)=q^{-1}+O(1)$, so $j'(z)=-q^{-1}+O(1)$. Thus, $\Delta\cdot j'$ is a modular form of weight $12+2$ (since $\Delta=\eta^{24}$ is cuspidal). However, the space of modular forms is the graded algebra $\mathbb C[E_4,E_6]$, so $M_{14}=\mathbb C E_4^2E_6$. Thus, $j'(z)\Delta(z)=c E_4^2E_6$ for some $c\in\mathbb C$. Comparing Fourier coefficients tells us $c=-1$.