Let's catalog some those suggestions given in the comments. First, let me rewrite the Binet formula in a more convenient form:
$$F_n=\frac1{\sqrt{5}}(\phi^n-(-\phi)^{-n})$$
where $\phi=\frac12(1+\sqrt5)$ is the golden ratio.
1) Verifying the Binet formula satisfies the recursion relation. First, we verify that the Binet formula gives the correct answer for $n=0,1$. The only thing needed now is to substitute the formula into the difference equation $u_{n+1}-u_n-u_{n-1}=0$. You then obtain
$$(-\phi)^{-n+1}+(-\phi)^{-n}-(-\phi)^{-n-1}+\phi^{n+1}-\phi^n-\phi^{n-1}=0$$
We can do some factoring:
$$-(-\phi)^{-n-1}(\phi^2-\phi-1)+\phi^{n-1}(\phi^2-\phi-1)=0$$
and since we know that $\phi^2-\phi-1=0$, Binet's formula is verified.
2) Solving the characteristic equation. One can associate with the linear difference equation $u_{n+1}-au_n-bu_{n-1}=0$ the characteristic equation $x^2-ax-b=0$. If the two roots of the characteristic equation are $x_1$ and $x_2$, the solutions of the difference equation take the form $u_n=px_1^n+qx_2^n$.
For the Fibonacci recurrence, $a=b=1$, and the roots of $x^2-x-1=0$ are $\phi$ and $1-\phi=-\phi^{-1}$. Thus, $F_n$ is expressible as
$$F_n=p\phi^n+q(-\phi)^{-n}$$
We can solve for $p$ and $q$ by using the initial conditions $F_0=0,F_1=1$. This gives the two equations
$$\begin{align*}p+q&=0\\p\phi+q(1-\phi)&=1\end{align*}$$
with the solutions $p=-q=\frac1{\sqrt{5}}$. Substituting that into the preliminary expression for $F_n$ yields the Binet formula.