To get you started with the generating function approach, construct generating functions for your sequences, which will be polynomials since your sequences have only finitely many terms:
f(z) = a_1 z + a_2 z^2 + \cdots + a_6 z^6 \\
g(z) = b_1 z + b_2 z^2 + \cdots + b_6 z^6
Now you must figure out how to translate the condition on the sums $a_i + b_j$ into some condition on $f(z)g(z)$. You should be able to explicitly write down $f(z)g(z)$ as a specific polynomial with positive integer coefficients.
Now factor this polynomial into irreducibles. Any solution to your problem must correspond to a factorization into a product of two degree 6 polynomials. Use your irreducible decomposition of $f(z) g(z)$ to determine how many such factorizations are possible. Then for each one, check whether the coefficients are positive integers, (weakly) increasing, and have different total sum of all coefficients. For each such factorization, you'll be able to read off a solution to your problem. (Hint: there's no guarantee that even one such factorization is possible.)