Let $k$ be a field, $R=k[X,Y]$ and $I=(X,Y)$, so that $R/I\simeq k$. I proved, using a projective resolution of $k$, that $\text{Tor}^R_2(k,k)= k$. I also proved that in general $$ \text{Tor}^A_2(A/I,A/J)=\ker(I\otimes_AJ\to IJ) $$ where $I,J$ are ideals in a commutative ring $A$. When trying to see this by computing $\ker(I\otimes_AJ\to IJ)$ for $A=R$ and $I=J=(X,Y)$, though, I get to an impasse.
Since $X,Y$ generate $I$, then $\{X\otimes X,X\otimes Y,Y\otimes X,Y\otimes Y\}$ is a system of generators of $I\otimes_R I$. In particular $\alpha=X\otimes Y - Y\otimes X \in \ker(I\otimes_RI\to I^2)$ since $\alpha \mapsto XY-YX=0$. But then $\forall f\in R$ we have $I\otimes_R I \ni f\alpha \mapsto f\cdot(XY-YX)=0$, so $R\alpha\subseteq\ker(I\otimes_RI\to I^2)$. What am I missing here?
Edit: @GeorgesElencwajg cleared my doubt, though I still don't see how to prove that $\ker(I\otimes_RI\to I^2) = k$ without using homological algebra.