Numerically spoken you have
$$\frac{\partial z}{\partial x} \approx\frac{f(x+h,y)-f(x,y)}{h}$$
$$\frac{\partial z}{\partial y} \approx \frac{f(x,y+h)-f(x,y)}{h}$$
Note that there are different ways to approximate the derivative. The most common ones are forward, backward and central differences.
$$\frac{\partial z}{\partial y} \approx \frac{f(x,y+h)-f(x,y)}{h}\approx \frac{f(x,y)-f(x,y-h)}{h}\approx \frac{f(x,y+h)-f(x,y-h)}{2h}$$
And if you take the limit you get
$$\frac{\partial z}{\partial x} =\lim_{h\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x+h,y)-f(x,y)}{h}$$
$$\frac{\partial z}{\partial y}= \lim_{h\rightarrow 0}\frac{f(x,y+h)-f(x,y)}{h}$$