Any matrixnorm induced by a norm on your vectorspace (over $\mathbb{R}$ or $\mathbb{C}$) that also satisfies $||A^{*}||=||A||$ will be greater than or equal to the spectral norm. Let $\lambda$ denote the largest singular value of A (the squareroot of the largest eigenvalue of (A*A) ) and v the corresponding eigenvector. Let $||A||$ denote the matrix norm induced by a norm on the vectorspace:
$$
||A||^2=||A^{*}||\cdot||A||\geq||A^{*}A||=\text{max}\frac{||A^{*}Ax||}{||x||}\geq\frac{||A^{*}Av||}{||v||}=\lambda
$$
and so $||A||\geq\sqrt{\lambda}$
For the 2-norm you actually have equality, which you can show by singular value decomposition. We can take an orthonormal base of eigenvectors for A*A (with respect to the usual scalar product that also induces the 2-norm). Denote this base by $v_1,\ldots,v_n$ with eigenvalues $\lambda_1=\lambda,\ldots,\lambda_n$. For any vector $x=\sum x_i v_i$ we have
$$
||Ax||_2^2=\overline{x}^TA^{*}Ax\leq\overline{x}^T\sum\lambda_i x_i v_i=\sum\lambda_i |x_i|^2\leq \lambda ||x||_2^2
$$
So $||A||_2\leq \sqrt{\lambda}$ and both inequalities together show $||A||_2=\sqrt{\lambda}$.